In my last post, I wrote about participating in a community reading program. The book the planning committee chose was Jennifer Wilson’s memoir Running Away to Home. The final event for the reading program was a presentation by the author. I was looking forward to that because I wanted to know what life has been like for Jennifer and her family now that they are home from their journey to Croatia. I especially wanted to know how the trip had changed them.
I didn’t need to ask the question. Another woman beat me to it. The nods from people in the auditorium clearly indicated that the question had been on their minds as well. Jennifer’s first response was that she and her family were relieved to be home again and they easily fell back into their regular routine. Her two children who had been homeschooled by their dad in Croatia were eager to get back to school with their friends. Jennifer was happy to go back to her travel writing.
Was I the only one who felt a little disappointed with that answer I wondered? So much had happened in Croatia, and Jennifer wrote about it all so eloquently in her book. I didn’t want to believe that the trip had not changed their whole family in some significant way. I was not the only one who wanted more. Someone else in the audience tried again asking the question in a slightly different way. Certainly the trip had changed them in some ways she suggested.
With the press for more details, Jennifer talked about small changes they had made. After spending four months in Mrkopalj where villagers raised almost everything they ate, the Wilsons started a garden in their yard. They have also learned to live on less. They no longer shop as recreation and they don’t hoard. More recently, they moved to a smaller home. But most of all, Jennifer says she has a new appreciation for her life in the U.S. She understands now how hard it was for her ancestors to immigrate to this country, and she fully appreciates the sacrifices they made. For instance, after her father settled in the U.S., he never again had contact with his family in Croatia. Jennifer has also seen how different her life would be if her ancestors had stayed in Croatia.
Another woman wondered about Jennifer’s children. They were only 4 and 7 years old when they made their journey to Croatia. “Do you think they’ll remember the trip when they’re older?” she asked.
“I don’t know,” Jennifer replied. Then she expressed her hope that the trip will help them learn to value travel as she does because it’s important to see more of the world.
Jennifer ended her presentation with a challenge for all of us. She said she and her husband had spent nine months planning for their trip. There were many times during that period when they had doubts. But always at the back of their minds there was a voice urging them forward. She challenged us to listen to our own inner voices and to push doubts aside to follow our hearts. It’s a risk, but the rewards can be great.